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“Business only fit for men to pursue”: By Lynne Davis Spies, Volunteer Writer & Researcher
![]() Residences of Caroline Morgan and her daughter Mollie Forsberg, 1877 Courtesy of Jones Memorial Library Born in 1805 to a New Jersey family connected to the founding of Princeton University, Caroline Fitz Randolph Morford was the youngest of Stephen and Mary Hamilton Morford’s five children.1 She came to be characterized as one of the “great belles” in her day.2 Petite and lively, she caught the eye of Lynchburg native and medical student James William Morgan, whom she married in October, 1826.3 The couple established their residence in Lynchburg, living in the Morgan mansion located on property that extended from the corner of Court and Fifth Streets to “the Cliff of Black Water.”4 Between 1829 and 1841, Caroline bore eight children, including two sets of twins; however, five of those children died before they were eight years old, which doubtless brought great sadness to the family. The three who survived were James William Morgan, Jr. (1834-1924), Mary Elizabeth (“Mollie”) Morgan (1839-1918), and Alexander Morford Morgan (1841-1913). For a woman of her era and station, Caroline lived a typical life filled with family, church, and charitable work. Married to a wealthy tobacconist (her husband apparently never practiced medicine) whose family had holdings throughout the South, including a plantation, Morgavin, in Yalobusha, Mississippi, she was active in the Court Street Methodist Episcopal Church, a member and officer of the Dorcas Society (a Methodist benevolent organization), and Second Directress (Vice-President) of the Ann Norvell Orphan Society, giving her energies to help the poor and disadvantaged: “She delighted to give—finding it a most blessed privilege to aid with the means in her hands in every good work.”5
![]() James William Morgan (1803-1847) Courtesy of Lynchburg Museum System Some of the more intriguing aspects of Caroline’s life after her husband’s death emerge as a result of her re-marriage on July 12, 1849, to Dr. William Perry Allison, a Mississippian, who was, apparently, sixteen years younger than she.9 Caroline met Allison during a stay at the Morgan plantation in 1848 when he was called in to treat Morgavin’s overseer, his family, and numerous slaves for scarlet fever. Details of this relationship survive in some remarkable documents: several love letters; an “Indenture” (a legal document which can be characterized in today’s terms as a prenuptial agreement preserving Caroline’s interest in and control of her property, her income, and her financial security); and a sensational “Resolution,” written by Allison largely to justify his behavior and demonize Caroline’s as their marriage broke apart.10 Much can be inferred, albeit cautiously, about Caroline and William Allison’s relationship from these documents. The love letters written shortly before their marriage demonstrate real affection between the two. Allison writes of his feelings as “the fire, the inconceivable heat that warms my bosom,” but he also betrays anxiety: “I will not harbor the thoughts of your being estranged [from me] by any possible influence,” an apparent reference to another suitor and to some of Caroline’s connections who disapproved of the relationship. For her part, Caroline addresses Allison as “My own Willie,” and speaks of ladies’ malicious gossip about her having another suitor; she assures him, though, that “[o]f one thing I am positive, I only love you. I never intend to marry anyone but you.”11 According to Allison, Caroline proposed marriage to him—a rather unusual move for a woman in the nineteenth century! In spite of love between Allison and Caroline, the marriage was short-lived and somewhat tempestuous. It seems to have foundered at least in part because of Caroline’s sense of her own authority and independence. Among Allison’s complaints in his “Resolution” are accusations that Caroline was bad tempered; took others’ advice over his; and, in response to his slapping “very lightly” one of her sons, told him “[she] would never sleep with [him] again.” While Allison willingly signed the prenuptial “Indenture” in which Caroline preserved her financial security, his complaints against her are summarized in his “Resolution” when he writes: I think I see the cause of the whole unhappiness but it is not in my power to apply the remedy [. . .] while you have to attend to business only fit for men to pursue. Never while you take upon yourself the management of the Estate, will you be happy or make your husband so [. . .]. What must everybody think of a husband of such a woman if they know she has one? In other words, he felt emasculated. According to Allison’s great grand-niece, “Caroline was quite a lady for her times [. . .] who wanted someone to ‘look like’ the head of the house while she continued to be in complete control.”12 After their divorce in the 1850s,13 Caroline resumed her life in Lynchburg as Mrs. C. F. R. Morgan, discarding entirely Allison’s name. Only through legal documents as well as federal census records do a few details emerge about Caroline in the approximately thirty years between the divorce and her death. She continued to be involved in legal transactions related to her first husband’s and father-in-law’s estates. By 1860, her daughter, Mollie, had married,14 and her two sons, James, Jr. and Alexander,15 were living with her in the Morgan mansion. Eventually, James moved to Florence, Alabama, where he married Annie Ravell.16 Along with many others, Caroline suffered financial reverses after the Civil War, which one document delicately referred to as a change in her “pecuniary condition”;17 yet, she lived to be “one of the oldest residents of Lynchburg” who was “highly esteemed by all.”18
![]() Morgan Plot in Old City Cemetery Courtesy of Southern Memorial Association Are you a descendant of Caroline Morgan? Do you have a picture of Caroline? Can you add anything else to her biography? If so, we want to talk to you! Please contact us by calling (434) 847-1465 or e-mailing ted@gravegarden.org.
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